![]() It's really only thanks to the power of the PS5 that the thing even runs at all (its frame-rate does drop significantly if you crash into several cars at once, but it holds up everywhere else). The piece allows you to tweak things such as traffic amount and sun rotation, which further conveys the brilliance of the engine's real-time features. Its real-time graphics are stunning, especially when it comes to destruction and lighting, and the amount of detail that's crammed into the surprisingly large environment is truly impressive. Instead, as its title suggests, it's a showcase for its engine. The experience only has very simple gameplay, with the car chase being entirely on rails and the city segment lacking any meaningful interaction, but the thing isn't really about the gameplay. It consists of two sections: a scripted car chase and an open-world city. Especially if you peek behind the menu and get a look at the in-engine controller as it scrambles to load all the assets in the background as you push it to its limits.'The Matrix Awakens: An Unreal Engine 5 Experience (2021)' is more of a tech demo than an actual game. When you add to the fact that this entire space has hardware ray tracing turned on, as well as ray-traced shadows in the cinematics, it’s hard not to be a little impressed. ![]() Or just fly around and admire the architecture from the air as you toggle on the different views to see just what goes into creating a city that consists of 10 million unique and duplicated assets. You can drive cars and crash into any of the 17,000 simulated and destructible vehicles. In this new world, you can fly to any street location, change between night and day, or move the sun or moon around the world as you watch the dynamic shadows powered by lumen stretch across the streets in real time. They showed us how you could quickly paint roads onto the map, add large sections of “buildings” that they quickly decide the height of, and then create an all-new world in what seems like would only take a few moments. They would rebuild the city weekly resulting in 52 unique cities that they would create, tear down, and then create again quickly with a little help from tools like SideFX’s Houdini for said procedural generation. Because they needed to work fast, the entire city was made with procedural generation. The end goal is to inspire other creators to use the Unreal 5 Engine so Jerome notes that Matrix Awakens was created by a small team after shipping their Unreal Engine 5 demo last year. “Basically we are the little swat team that tries to come up with ‘Okay, how are we going to show the engine the best?’.How can we show that the engine can do something else other than just rocks?” referring to last year's Lumen demo. But… it's a glimpse of the future." says Jerome Plattteaux, Art Director at Unreal as he talks us through the tech. ![]() there's a little bit of gameplay, a little bit of exploration. If someone out there could make a certain flying man in blue and red I’d certainly love to see it. And I can’t wait to see what the Unreal community does with it. One difference? Similar to how they made the Valley of the Ancient demo publicly available this year, The Matrix build will be given away for free next Spring for you to tinker around within the Unreal 5 engine. Their recreation of New York City had ray-tracing, heavy crowd density, as well as traffic that’s procedurally generated the same way it was in the Matrix demo. Finally, you’re allowed to explore the city at your leisure and toy with some of the engine’s tools.Īs I look at what’s been created I can’t help but compare it to Insomniac's Spider-Man Miles Morales. Of course it all ends with a massive explosion. You are then transported to an on-rails game experience where you’ll play as a new character with the ability to shoot some cars and helicopters as you’re chased by agents on the freeway. The demo opens with what amounts to a trailer where Keanu Reeves and Carrie Anne Moss talk about the ideas of the Matrix and what the Unreal 5 engine can create. You can absolutely make an open-world game in Unreal.’ Really, it’s a chance for the team to say, ‘Yes. There’s a playable component as well, but what you “play” is more a proof of concept than what you should expect from any final product. Matrix Awakens isn’t just a visual teaser, however. They’ve already been showing you the engine and reality mixed together for the first 2 minutes of the experience. ![]() I think cynics are going to call out how, yes, things do look a tad plastic-y, but the “trick” the Unreal team pulls here is quite cheeky. The entire demo enters that uncanny valley feeling from there.
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![]() “The next-gen consoles bring a new level of graphical fidelity to the Borderlands universe, and Borderlands 3 is fully optimized to take advantage of their processing power. I was one of those lucky pre-order people and got a Series X delivered on launch day. The Next-Gen upgrade to Borderlands 3 changes everything, albeit you do need to upgrade the console to reap the rewards. Of course, Borderlands 3 is still a benchmark we use in all of our GPU reviews today. Either way, Halo MCC kept us entertained since.Ĭheck out my original performance testing and review of Borderlands 3 here, and our second test here. That was it, Borderlands 3 was dead to us and the issues we had with the game were not being addressed. ![]() I want to make it clear, we did around 20-30 hours of Borderlands 3 on the Xbox Series S last year, and we were so fed up with the issues, we simply gave up. Heck, it was Borderlands and couch co-op that led me to write my own editorial for Cooptimus many years ago, and later led to working at eTeknix! So, it’s safe to say that Borderlands has played a big part in my life. My partner and I were ecstatic, having put thousands of hours into the franchise up to that point and it couch co-op was then a cornerstone of our relationship and had been for some time. ![]() List of all new Nucleus Co-op supported games and FAQ here: Ĭredit: Goldberg emulator and Nucleus Co-op, I combined both so this handler with some editing could potentially work for any multiplayer game that uses steam works to play locally on just one pc:Īlso to the whole Splitscreen Dreams discord for their awesome tools and mods.Around this time last year, we got to welcome Borderlands 3 into our home. You can access your saves per instance via the Nucleus Co-op UI after the first launch, click game options/open user profile save path in the UI. Each instance has its own save file now inside C:\Users\NucleusCoop. Note: Unfortunately audio only plays for one instance - we're working on it. To play co-op start a game with Player One, wait until it's in game, and then other player(s) select the "Quick Match" option on the main menu to connect. Lastly open Nucleus Co-op again, auto search for the game or manually select the game exe using the search game button, select it, run it with the number of players you want and you are good to go. Open Nucleus Co-op, search and download this game handler in the Download Game Handlers option. The Borderlands devs keep removing split-screen from their PC ports so something had to be done again.ĭownload latest Nucleus Co-op 2.0 and extract it. 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However, you must identify your interest in the content (i.e. Self-promotion is allowed as their own posts. Here you will find discussion of new and upcoming local multiplayer games, strategy, tournaments, Let's Plays and Let's Players looking for such games. This is a subreddit dedicated to local multiplayer games, which are games that are played on one system among multiple players, either single or split screen. ![]() The stats of these Aircraft carriers and Z-35, as well as the Z-35's concept will be published in the near future, stay tuned. CVs have no real way of countering or outplaying each other besides consumables which are of dubious benefit, etc. ![]() CVs are basically going to be damage farming everything else. * The final shape of torpedo bomber's launching cone is similar to that of Japanese and American torpedo bombers. Ill straight up state that I dont like the rework for lots of reasons. These bombs will be most effective against slower opponents. Their drop zone is shaped like an elongated ellipse, and aiming it during an attack may be difficult. Unlike the Japanese bombers, German ones dive immediately, without the prior altitude gain. Therefore, a player's reaction against such rockets should be similar to the actions one would take against armour-piercing shells. That's why it doesnt fit WoWs and why all the shoehorning & shapeshifting to attempt to make them half-assed fit into a tactical level naval engagement. It's a strategic asset not a tactical combat boat. All the CV is for is to maintain aircraft and feed/house pilots. Armor-piercing rockets can also ricochet against destroyers' end armour when the ship is bow-in to the planes. CVs are, for all purposes, a mobile airport. Rockets fired at broadsided destroyers –with their thin armour– will result in over-penetrations that deal 10% of the maximum damage. These rockets can deal high damage by hitting an enemy ship's citadel, but they allow a familiar counter-play: when they hit at an acute angle, they can ricochet or simply not penetrate the armour. * Attack aircraft use armour-piercing rockets. ![]() ![]() It’s not my job to have a perfectly organized inbox, which is good because it can be a mess at times. I used to feel bad about it, but I don’t anymore. My email accounts get messy as the end of the year approaches because it’s our busy season at MacStories. ![]() Store emails, capture new leads/opportunities, and create tasks right from your inbox.īefore I get to the apps I’m using to manage my email day-to-day, I want to cover how I dealt with my email backlog. Supported By Dayliteĭaylite CRM App: Direct Apple Mail integration. I knew it was time to make the most of an imperfect situation by cobbling together a hybrid solution that I hope will provide readers with some pointers on how they can improve how they manage email too. ![]() However, what started as patience as I waited for Apple to modernize Mail or a third-party developer to build something better, began to feel like stubborn inflexibility on my part. I don’t abandon that approach lightly because I don’t like the mental overhead of juggling multiple apps with different features to accomplish the same task. This is a problem and conversation that goes back to the early days AppStories, and really, long before even that.Īs 2021 came to a close, I knew something had to change and that I’d have to let go of my longstanding preference of using the same app across all of my devices. The trouble is that a lot of MacStories readers could say the same thing but would pick an entirely different set of features they care about the most. Even so, the features I value in an email app are ones that I care about a lot. On one level, that’s surprising because I don’t think my email needs are unique or complex. No matter which app I picked, I was never satisfied. I’ve been revisiting my approach to email every year for what seems like forever. However, I expect most individuals and teams that aren’t looking to use email as though it were Slack will like what they see in Mail, so let’s dig into the details.Įditor’s Note: Why I Abandoned the Search for the Perfect Email App and Am Making Do With a Hybrid Approach is part of the MacStories Starter Pack, a collection of ready-to-use shortcuts, apps, workflows, and more that we’ve created to help you get the most out of your Mac, iPhone, and iPad. Message collaboration and back channel chat about email messages among team members, which Spark and other apps offer, is a good example of a feature Apple has left to others. You won’t find every cutting-edge modern email feature in Mail. However, this fall, across iOS, iPadOS, and macOS, Apple is finally bringing many of the features pioneered by others to its own Mail app. Mail sat, barely touched on any platform for what seemed like forever. That’s why the situation with Apple’s Mail app has been so distressing in recent years. Remember Sparrow? How about Mailbox or Acompli? Notice a trend? There are still some bright spots, like Mimestream on the Mac and Spark, but with so few survivors, having a strong choice from Apple has never been more important. However, few of them are with us anymore. Over the years, developers have come up with innovative tools layered on top of the core email protocols to improve the experience. One of email’s many problems is how hard it can be to manage the volume of messages so many of us receive. Tools like Slack have replaced the lion’s share of internal communications at many companies, and a long list of messaging apps have chipped away at conversations among individuals. However, because I handle most of my email on the Mac and most of what I’d like to see Mimestream incorporate is planned or under consideration for future updates, it’s become how I manage most of my email.Įmail isn’t going anywhere anytime soon despite its flaws. The app doesn’t have everything I want from an email client. What drew me back to Mimestream was the app’s native design, tight integration with Gmail, and open roadmap. I’ve been using Mimestream on and off for over a year, returning to it in late January after briefly trying Missive. All but my iCloud email are connected to Gmail, which makes me a pretty strong candidate for Mimestream, which launched this week after a couple years in beta. Two are work-related, and two are personal. If you spend a lot of time on other devices or have non-Gmail accounts, the call is tougher, but that’s exactly my situation, and I think Mimestream is still the best Mac email choice for most people. It offers the core Gmail experience wrapped in a thoughtfully designed native Mac app. If you primarily use Gmail and work on a Mac, you should try Mimestream now. I’m going to straight-up spoil this review for you at the top. ![]() In my case this was because I wanted them as Sass partials, which are designated with the underscore. Each thing we ‘captured’ is represented by a $ in the second set of quotes, so you can see in this case that not only did I change the file extension, I added a proceeding _ before it. ![]() Then we can manipulate what we have ‘captured’ in the second set of quotes. Each is within a set of parenthesis, the first is the file path, (**/) and the second the file name, (*). Within the first one, zmv is letting us do two sets of replacements/groups. Zmv lets us swap one thing with another, so everything in the first set of quotes with everything in the second set of quotes. But don’t go doing that yet!! zmv '(**/)(*).css' '$1_$2.scss' The basics of how zmv works First, get into a parent folder of all the files you want to rename. Now, I’ll show you the command that did my bidding, and then hopefully explain what’s going on. First you will need to load the zmv function by running autoload zmv from the command prompt. So assuming you have ZSH, let’s take a look at what we can do. It’s the default shell in macOS these days so if you are on Catalina onwards – you already have it. So, as zmv requires ZSH shell, at the risk of stating the obvious, you’ll need a ZSH shell. So, to reiterate my my use case, I had a project where I wanted to change all files ending in. Turns out this is a great little tool I’d not used before, and as it met my needs beautifully, I thought I’d give a brief overview for my future self and any passing travellers. It was suggested I look at zmv which works in the ZSH shell. So I happened to ask in the Sublime Text Discord how people did this. I didn’t fancy renaming them ‘by hand’, and the Finder batch rename is only really useful when all the files are in one folder and/or you can easily select them all. There were around a hundred files nested in many different sub-folders. I had a situation today where I wanted to migrate a large-ish codebase from standard CSS files to Sass files with a *.scss file extension. ![]() This is a quick tip rather than an involved tutorial. ![]() ![]() The armrests are sufficiently padded, but the rest of the interior is trimmed in hard plastic and shiny fake metal. ![]() The midlevel SE’s cabin is a snore in both materials and design. The Escape trumps the others in quietness, however, with better road isolation than all three competitors. The Escape with the 2.0-liter engine is pleasant to drive, with surprising pep, direct steering, confident handling and great bump absorption, but the CX-5 is much more fun, with an agility unmatched in the class. To boot, competitors offer better economy from their standard engines: The 2016 Honda CR-V is rated 26/33/29, the Mazda CX-5’s base engine is 26/35/29 and the Toyota RAV4 is estimated to get 23/30/26 mpg. Midlevel SE trims get a standard 173-hp, turbocharged 1.6-liter engine rated 23/32/26 mpg. Base S models are equipped with a 168-hp, 2.5-liter four-cylinder rated 22/31/25 mpg though it’s slower and cruder, fuel economy is a smidge better. I’m not convinced the performance gains are worth the 2.0-liter’s $1,195 price premium. The Escape’s six-speed automatic aptly delivers power on demand for strain-free highway passing and hill climbs.įuel economy is just OK at an estimated 22/30/25 mpg city/highway/combined with front-wheel drive. With 231 horsepower, it’s the most robust engine in the stable, providing quick, smooth takeoffs and not a hint of turbo lag. An update for 2017 will bring a larger grille, which should help keep the Escape’s look contemporary.Ī trio of engines are available, and I found the optional turbocharged 2.0-liter four-cylinder in my test SE model to be just right. In the years since, it’s held up well and remains a handsome, if conservatively styled, SUV compared with the sporty, aggressive CX-5 and the awkward, blocky CR-V. The Escape got a dramatic styling update for the 2013 model year, ditching its trucky silhouette for a more angular profile and a sleek, bug-like face. The upgrade to Sync 3 is the only big change for 2016 compare the 20 Escape here. However, the new-for-2016 Sync 3 multimedia system is a cut above and makes the Escape stand out in the segment.Įscape competitors include the Mazda CX-5, Honda CR-V and Toyota RAV4 compare them here. Versus the competition: The Escape has been a dim bulb amid many bright lights in the compact SUV class. As with many good sandwiches, though, the good stuff is inside, this time in the form of its excellent new Sync 3 multimedia system. The verdict: The 2016 Ford Escape’s styling is about as exciting as a slice of bread. In the toolbar, click to open the Stencils window. The Stencils folder lives deep within OmniGraffle's container, but there's a quick way to get to the Stencils folder from within OmniGraffle. To make the process of Exporting an OmniGraffle Document as a Stencil to the Stencils folder a little easier, you'll need to create a shortcut to the stencils folder in the Finder's sidebar. Once downloaded, drag the stencil to the canvas.Ĭreating a Shortcut to the Stencils Folder This downloads the stencil from Stenciltown and makes it available with all of the other OmniGraffle stencils on your Mac. Stenciltown displays applicably-named stencils which you can download from Stenciltown to your Mac. To use one of the stencils, click and drag it to the canvas. displays stencils already available to you on your Mac. You’ll notice there are two categories of results: ![]() As you type, OmniGraffle starts pruning what you see below. You click in the search field and start entering Boolean. Let’s say that you’re working on a techy diagram and you need some Boolean Gates. How you use a stencil you’ve searched for depends on how it pops up in the results. Stencils that already exist in OmniGraffle appear at the top of the search results, followed by anything new that’s been posted to Stenciltown. If you are dealing with iPads, you could ask Omni if they will post a "fullfile" version of OmniGraffle Pro though at a higher cost in the App Store.that way you don't have to mess with In App purchases.At the top of the Stencils window is a search field that you can use to search through the existing stencils in OmniGraffle and-as an added bonus-Omni’s own online user-supported stencil repository, Stenciltown. If you are dealing with iPads, your question still stands though and, no, there is no way to do In-App Purchases through the VPP Store as far as I know. Then you have an installer that you control outside the store. Alas, if you are on iPads, the App Store is the ONLY vehicle.Ĭontact OmniGroup at 1-80 and talk to them about obtaining OmniGraffle Pro from them directly for your Mac fleet. The app store for them isn't the only deployment vehicle for their software. I did that for years with OmniOutliner until we retired the software in our district. You can download their product for free and then embed a license key in a file and include with your installer once Omni provides it. I know for a fact that you can contact OmniGroup explicitly outside the App Store and buy a license for OmniGraffle Pro. OmniGroup has been an Apple Developer since the NextSTEP days. I do have some good news for you on THAT specific app though if you are dealing with Macs and not iPads. Hope this helps you.this is what our Apple Rep in Indiana has weighed in officially with. ![]() They will try to publish one for you and as you know, in the VPP store, any purchases made are half price if you buy more than 20 licenses for a given app. As an EDU district, you wouldn't want to choose 'Math.'.instead, you would choose the "Geometry®" app or the "Algebra" app which are each $9.99 but comes with all the content already filled in not requiring in-app purchases.Ī lot of developers don't realize that schools cannot buy things with credit cards like most and if you find an app that your folks really want, but that doesn't have a full-file version, contact the developer. As a consumer, you would acquire the content lessons through in-app purchases. You only get a few sample lessons with the free app. You will notice a free app called "Math." which is their entire product with all of their content lines available as an in-app purchase. This way there are no in app-purchases required.Īnother example would be the series. If I as an EDU customer who can only use the VPP program and POs wanted the app, then I would want to choose the 4th Grade Splash Math HD Full versions that includes all the content at the price of $9.99. If I wanted to put say 4th Grade Splash Math on any iPad (consumer or VPP), I would have two options.acquire the free app and get all the content through in app purchases. Two app examples we have encountered.:Īn iTunes Store search for Splash Math will yield different grade levels and numerous versions. If an app is not, then we are supposed to lobby the developer to release a second version of the app primarily for VPP customers that is full-file. What we have had to do is buy apps that are completely fulfilled. Apple has issued me formal guidance on this matter for our school district.basically the VPP program DOES NOT handle in-app purchases. ![]() Those benefits make investments in alternative proprietary or open-core solutions like MySQL increasingly difficult to justify.The relational data model organizes data in tables of rows and columns and dominates in database management tools. There’s a reason that “Just use Postgres” has become a common suggestion for developers starting on new applications when it comes to addressing a range of specific needs.Īs a true open-source database solution being compared to one saddled with open core limitations, Postgres delivers powerful features, data portability freedom, and free cost to put organizations at a meaningful advantage. Postgres also offers helpful default settings ready to support simple but powerful prototyping and much more. While MySQL is arguably easier to manage, Postgres is relatively easy as well. You can compile it on a SPARCstation, launch a Postgres Docker container on your laptop, or deploy multiple instances using Kubernetes. ![]() Postgres is simple to deploy and works on absolutely everything, from a Raspberry Pi Zero to multi-server clusters. Even if MySQL did offer faster performance-which it doesn’t-Postgres still would be the better choice, simply for its flexibility. In use cases from developing new applications, to migrating large existing databases, to conforming to continuously changing business requirements, it’s hard not to pick the most flexible system. That said, Postgres provides stronger performance in most use cases, including heavy data ingestion, complex analytics, and working with NoSQL data. MySQL does outperform Postgres in a few specific use cases (such as certain simple primary key lookups). Without diving into the gritty technical details of Postgres and MySQL, the two feature a noticeable difference in delivered performance. However, it’s all the more necessary to take care to avoid the lock-in perils of open core when navigating the MySQL ecosystem. ![]() MySQL’s Community Edition features a sizeable open-source community as well, and MySQL has available professional support. Organizations in need of more elaborate assistance can also easily find experienced providers offering professional PostgreSQL support. It’s also quite easy for developers to ask questions and receive the right answers from the community. Strong Community and Commercial Supportīecause of Postgres’ public code review approach to development, the entire public history of the solution’s development and discussions, including thousands of volunteer committers and Postgres professionals, is available in mailing list archives (as well as platforms like Slack, IRC, Telegram, and others). Amid these challenges for organizations simply seeking safe open-source technologies to build and scale their products upon, Postgres stands out as a particularly mature project backed by a particularly strong community-and with diverse project leadership dedicated to true open-source principles. Open core vendors that lure in customers with the promise of open-source flexibility while concealing vendor and technical lock-in continue to lie like traps within the solution landscape. The past year has seen a lot of activity with open-source projects changing their licensing, unfortunately leading to greater usage restrictions in most cases. And while “MySQL Community Edition” is still supported by a large community of open-source developers, MySQL development has certainly felt the impact of Oracle’s influence. While ostensibly “open-source,” MySQL has increasingly added commercial modules with proprietary licensing since its acquisition by Oracle in 2010. In contrast, MySQL has a, let’s call it more complex standing. The project is unquestionably a testament to the capabilities of its broad and talented open-source community. Its code quality is highly regarded: an achievement stemming from the project’s commitment to open and public code review processes. ![]() Postgres is also a fully open-source project that’s been available under the PostgreSQL license since 1996. The open-source community’s response to bugs is usually immediate: important bugs are fixed-with full transparency-in a matter of days at most. From its continuous partitioning improvements to introducing index deduplication, PostgreSQL is consistently getting better with every release. Apart from a few hiccups (I’m talking about you, reindex concurrently bug), Postgres has delivered new first-class enterprise features with each of its last few versions. PostgreSQL releases a new major version every year. ![]() Consequently, I take it as license to indulge in feeling deprived and rejected, much in the same way that I felt with my father who rarely talked to me except to order me around or scold me. I conclude from his meager display of communication that he doesn’t want to be with me or that he isn’t interested in me or what I feel. I initiate small talk about the events of the day, and he responds with unintelligible grunts. I’m on the couch and my husband Peter is relaxed in his easy chair, glued to the TV. ![]() Here she describes a complication of our early marriage: These inner conflicts cause them to repeat the pattern of disharmony in their next romantic endeavor, or else they avoid subsequent relationships for fear of failure.Īs an example of transference in marital disharmony, I cite at length a passage from LoveSmart: Transforming the Emotional Patterns That Sabotage Relationships, written by my late wife, Sandra Michaelson. I believe failure of mainstream psychology to teach and disseminate this depth psychology is a terrible disservice, comparable to denying educational opportunities to women in centuries past.ĭivorce isn’t a solution, Bergler said, because divorced individuals typically haven’t resolved the inner conflicts that led to divorce in the first place. Many divorces and other acts of self-sabotage-with their accompanying suffering-wouldn’t occur if people were psychologically more astute. Though Sigmund Freud introduced those terms 100 years ago, we still fail to monitor or regulate these processes as they pertain to our suffering and self-defeat. These emotions are usually acted out with our spouse through projection, transference, and identification. fancies that he himself determines his own acts he does not realize for a moment that he is acting on orders from the forces within.īergler says that the “orders from forces within” arrive as impulses or compulsions to act out in present time those old negative emotions we acquired long before we even met our partner. In comparison with the total structure of their personalities, the conscious aspect is of no more importance than an underling who carries out orders but has no part in making decisions.The person who consciously carries out the orders. But the truth is that the conscious life of each of them is only the outer expression of a huge network of deep-lying motives and complexes of which they are quite unaware. The man and woman think they make their own decisions about their marriage and that its fate lies in their own hands. Yet so powerful are the unconscious partners, and so efficient in their work, that they determine the whole course of the marriage and every other important aspect of the lives of these people. This unconscious partner is really the deepest part of the person himself, but works so silently that the person is unaware even of its existence. In addition to the two people who took out the marriage license, there is for each of them an invisible unconscious partner. ![]() There are four parties involved in every marriage. Edmund Bergler is available at used-book websites and also from International Universities Press in Madison, CT ( Bergler writes: What are these hidden dynamics? The essentials can be found in Divorce Won’t Help, a classic written more than fifty years ago. You can agree to have a partnership that’s intent on helping each other discover and resolve the hidden dynamics of human nature. Both of you need to become more conscious. Recognize that the pain you’re feeling is not your fault or your partner’s. Intimacy and love can be restored and enhanced if we look deeper into our personal issues.įor starters, try approaching marital conflict as a no-fault situation. Of course, many other marriages can be saved. For various reasons, some feuding couples are too unlikely to re-establish harmony and love. In some cases, getting a divorce is the sensible thing to do. It’s just so easy to blame our tribulations on the annoying characteristics of our partner-or on faulty genes, biochemical imbalances, the malice of others, or the cold, cruel world. Through resistance and denial, we prefer to avoid the disturbing idea that we’re the architects of our own suffering. We simply refuse to approach the unconscious part of us that harbors and cultivates the negative emotions that feed marital unhappiness. We forsake our partner because we can’t stomach our own bile. Rather than examine ourselves, many of us elect to betray love and skip town. Many people are too conflicted and divided in their psyche to maintain the union of a loving relationship. When marital conflict leads to divorce, conflict in the human psyche is the culprit, not the institution of marriage. Many of us elect to betray love rather than look at ourselves. ![]() Fluid Measurements: Measurement of static pressure, Stagnation pressure, flow velocity and flow rate measurement including Venturimeter, orifice meter, nozzle meter. ![]()
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